Episode 2—The Stick & Letting Go


It is an honor to protect my daughter’s heart. It’s a job that I take very seriously and I hope I do it well.

But it is a limited time gig.

At some point, I will have to allow some other man, her future husband, to assume that role. A man that has not grown up with her. A man that doesn’t know her as well as I know her. A man that only sees my little girl as a grown woman.

Will he do a good enough job? When he drops the ball and does something hurtful to her (which WILL happen because I was a young husband once) will my daughter be okay? Will I be okay?

Letting Go

Letting my daughter grow up and letting her go is probably harder on me than it is on her.

I like control. I like knowing where she is and what she’s doing so I can make sure she’s safe.

But by NOT letting her go, I will keep her handicapped. I will prevent her from building her own resilience and strength. I will do more harm than good.

And that is something that I DON’T want to do.

In This Episode

  • The Stick—An object lesson to remind me that it is my privilege to protect my daughter’s heart.
  • What it feels like to have give up protecting my daughter.
  • The conflict between wanting dad and wanting “The Boy”.
  • The Mad Duke (to understand the reference, watch this video).

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